Haven’t posted for a while partly because I lost my password! but mostly because we’ve been focusing on getting monkey to only have one bottle at night and I didn’t want to report back until I had some positive news!
The first week he reacted very well. When he woke as usual at 11pm for his milk I lifted him into bed with me but told him no it was too early for milk. He would cry “mummy” a few times and sign for milk but this only lasted a matter of minutes and then he would go back to sleep for another 4 hours.
Last week we had a bit of a step backwards. One night when he woke at 11pm I gave in and gave him his milk. The weird thing is though, that he then slept until 7 with a few stirrings but no major wakenings. This has continued into this week.
How do I explain to him that he’s dropping the ‘wrong’ feed? I wanted him to drop the 11, have the 3am one for a while and then eventually drop it too. Instead he’s droppped the 3 and having the 11. I am very confused!
Sleep Is For The Weak 
sounds like progress even if it was different to what you were intending!
they definitely dance til their own tune tam !!! definite progress tho ;- )